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Love Found and City Bound

I met my first boyfriend and quickly became involved in a spirit-breaking relationship. This lasted for a few years, and during the course I met his friends and family and we all got along famously. He was a karaoke DJ, so I got into singing karaoke. After finally having the courage to leave him, I moved out and took my dreams back.

One night a year later, I won a karaoke contest singing the song “Ballroom Blitz” and won a $50 prize, and stashed the money to use on “something perfect.” Time went by, I forgot about the money, and I started talking more and more with Aaron, my ex’s brother, who lives in Chicago. We had been great friends from the start. He suggested I visit sometime, but it didn’t seem possible because I lived in a tiny rural town in South Eastern Ohio, eight hours away. We didn’t talk for a little while, and we even started talking to other people. I read about feng shui and started re-arranging and organizing my apartment, with the intentions of “making room” for a mate. I randomly requested Memorial Day Weekend off thinking I could spend it with family, but on Thursday night decided to drive to Chicago using my prize money as gas money.

I called him and asked if it was cool, he excitingly told me yes. I drove up the next morning by myself, never having driven that far alone or in the city. We had the most amazing weekend! He was such a gentleman and we instantly fell in love. I went back home, but moved within the month to the city! All that house organization made is extremely easy to move! On the way, we got stuck in traffic and my car not only started overheating, but running out of gas as well. Full of faith, we pressed on and made it just fine. Aaron is amazing and his family is still great and understanding . I love the city and all the opportunities! I once requested information from an art school in Chicago, because I want to study fashion. I put the pamphlet away because it didn’t seem feasible, and then I found it again after I moved. I plan to start school next year. If it hadn’t been for my ex-boyfriend, one of the hardest things I’ve had to go through, I wouldn’t have met Aaron or be able to fulfill my dreams! To top everything off, my karaoke contest song choice “Ballroom Blitz” was also sang by Tia Carrere in the movie Wayne’s World, which takes place in… Chicago!

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twist and turns

As people grow up in this world today it seems that everybody is facing the same problems. people can’t seem to get away from things like this struggling economy, law enforcement, Drug Abuse, Death, lies, and greed. For me this struggle never stops. about 2 years ago i was researching on the internet and i found the Appalachian Trail. 2167 miles from georgia to maine with nothing but a thick, wet, cold, hot, rocky, muddy terrain that constantly goes up and down through all of the appalachian mountains. this was for me. so two of my friends and I decided that we were going to do this. we didnt want to do the whole through hike because that takes up to six months and we were low on cash so we started from hot springs north carolina with nothing but the oversized packs on our backs and and a couple hundred bucks in our pockets. We’re all from Chicago’s south suburbs and we lived in the woods all of our lives. we love it.. the nature, the solitude, everything. but we have never walked more than 4 miles in the woods in our lives and we were about to walk some insane mountains on the east coast. the first attempt at walking the A.T. we walked 70 miles. Eight days to walk from town to town. the reason for coming home so soon was the fact that we all got really sick and fed up with a constant downpour for 6 days straight!!! Well, twenty hours and three greyhound buses later were back in Chicago and i have never been so disgusted in my life. the air was so polluted, the noise, all the anger and hatred on the streets, and coming back into this world with still no money and having to start over is not an easy task to do and lets just leave it at that… I’m Going back to the mountians every year until i finish the whole thing. Life on the A.T. is So inspiring and true eye opener. If you dont Know your true colors believe me they will blossom while your trekking that mountain! So i’m back, Waiting and preparing for a 2 in a half week hike next year and thats all i can think about. im working a Worthless job, playing in an underground band with a spit of pay on the weekends, driving a P.O.S. Jeep that i get tickets in every time i start the thing, and just can never catch a break. Thing just keep on coming…..

and theres plenty more were that came from!!

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