Posts Tagged car accident

1% chance

Feb 28, 2005. I was driving home and was about 5 blocks from my house when a 19 yr old who was racing in a residential area t-boned my driver side door at 70 miles an hour. I was driving a ’89 Accord. The paramedics got there and call flight for life. They estimated with the extent of my injuries I had a 1 % chance to make it to the hospital alive. I was rushed to Denver General and went straight to the OR. They did 5 hours of emergency surgery, 17 pints of blood. I was so traumatized they had to leave my abdomen open from ribs to pelvis for 1 week afterword. I had 6 brain bleeds, 2 spinal chord injuries, torn aorta, collapsed left lung, bruised right lung, liver, stomach, diaphragm, bladder all were torn. Spleen was ruptured. My pelvis was shattered and my right side was paralyzed. I was in ICU for 6 weeks.

The Dr. said I wouldn’t make it through the night.

I should have brain trauma resulting in non-function of my brain and permanent paralization of my right side. After ICU, I went to another hospital for 4 weeks. Then I went to another hospital for 4 weeks. I was finally cleared to walk after 12 weeks. After 3 1/2 months of hospital I went home to my parents. 3 weeks later the scar tissue down my abdomen scarred shut my intestines dropping me to 93 lbs. I couldn’t digest anything or keep any food down. I had another sx to remove all the scar tissue. After that my hip joint collapsed leaving me in great pain and bed ridden for 9 months. I finally had a total hip replacement a year and 2 months after the accident. 12 week recovery from that surgury. In sep of 06 I went ot school for vet technition. Graduated Sep of 07. I have a foot drop in the right foot and a hip replacement in my left hip. I was 23 when the accident happened.

I am 27 now and have no long term brain injury effects. There is so much more to the story than all of that suffering, pain, despair, but also faith, hope and love. I know God was with me and gave me hope and courage to servive through all of it. I am trying to pass that hope on to others every day of my life, because after all, we only get one chance.

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A September to forget.

In September 2007 my father passed away at age 45- healthy ,young, a freak incident the doctor said. I drove home to plan the funeral. Mom in bad shape-hospitalization-very very bad. I was driving back to my home for work 3 days later, when just as I was passing exit 100 a drunk driver was pulling a tractor trailer, the wrong way down an off ramp on the interstate. He hit me head on before I even knew what had happened. Then everything was black. I woke to fire, screaming, smoke and sirens. I was in a car with my pet. The car was totalled, and on fire- I had major injuries but was alive- pet was fine. Man thought he had killed me because I was not moving after accident- he fled the scene, people chased him down- and he later shot himself. I had to file a law suit to get my surgeries for my injuries. And then another because my grandparents and fathers family decided they wanted my inheritance from my family…and the family based business-we are now estranged and in a court battle. So then I get a rental car to drive back to my home for surgeries, the rental car they gave me for some reason had a nail in the tire and I almost had a blow out on the interstate-( a trucker saved me thankfully)- but it still had a flat in the middle of no -where – so I was stranded….I finally go back to my home and get in a 3 month long battle with the insurance company over paying for my surgeries,it is intense. I cannot breathe properly without the surgeries. I’m in physical therapy. Bones are re-broken. When I finally do get them I have a severe reaction to the codeine (turns out I am allergic) and I become very-very ill and have an allergic reaction- back in the hospital. It takes a few years to recover from the surgeries, one law suit is done, after a year, I still don’t have a car, the other law suit for my fathers estate is still going on after over 2 years. My nerves are finally back. This is a true story.

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